Opinion

Family planning is important

Are you married? Are you taking care of your family well? There are some essentials that you need to consider before getting married since responsibility is part of life. You should plan carefully and sensibly for the kids you want to produce.

There are those who decided to remain single in their lives. What do you think is the motive? One needs to know what kind of a woman to marry after a maximum period in courtship with her. It is important for the couples to have proper knowledge in producing children and parental care.

Furthermore, it is a fundamental decision to make between you how many children to produce that basically match your financial status but do not let your wealth to lead you in the world. You are not rich more than Bill Gates the world’s richest man. Is he known by producing many children? No! Producing many children is not the only business in this world.

Believe that these robbers, thieves and street children are the results of polygamous marriage. Parents who are educating their few kids are better than people who produce many children but they fail to care for them and such children would have no future at all.

How do you feel when the kids of your neighbours are going to school while your children don’t?

Therefore, producing many children without bringing them upright is useless but it only brings back shame to you the parents. As you are the producer, you will never escape the big troubles that your uneducated children would harmfully cause to you and other people.

Poor upbringing of children will give you a burden and the government as your children will rob, steal and beg from people.

All women are the same despite the solid fact that there are beautiful girls wherever you go but you should choose one. If you want to change one after the other like dresses, you are simply greedy and filled with lasts.

Become your spouse’s number one sponsor and motivator and the one who is always there supporting and fueling hopes and dreams for her.

Develop together and make life great confidently through the world as an army of two to raise up your children. You are who you are today because of your parents and guardians who brought you up in life. If you were not well brought up, would you be like the way you are today?

The same applies to the kids you are producing. Their future is in your hands. They will bring good things for you in future. Take caution about them. All good things which you desire or admire are the fruits of originality.

They said if you want to enjoy life, marry only one wife and spend your life time with her. Stop producing like rats and aim for the highest life in your history. You are responsible of shaping your own destiny with your children. At the end, it is not the years in your life that count but the way you live and what you have done.

Learn to value yourself with children which mean sight for your happiness in life. By desiring little, a poor man makes himself rich.  Sometimes the kids of a woman you marry reveal who you are. Success depends on action but not producing more children that will make it hard to raise them up. The price of success is hard work. There is nothing in the world so demoralizing than money. American engineer Richard Buck Minister said “Parents are usually more careful to bestow knowledge on their children rather than virtue. The art of speaking well rather than doing well but their manners should be of greatest concern.”

Are you among the parents who do so? Children are like crops in the field they always need your presences right from planting up to consumption stage. Handle them with care. You might be raising a prominent person to develop this country. They will not remain like that.

 

 

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